Hot Chocolate Run

This was my 4th time doing the Hot Chocolate Run!

I skipped last year after I tore my meniscus, but doing the 5k this year reminded me why I love races! (It also helped that it wasn’t pouring rain like it has been in the past!)

This one is especially fun because they have great swag and of course Hot Chocolate at the end!

I would definitely recommend this race for any level! Here are my quick tips:

  1. When you register choose your fastest possible time: Don’t sell yourself short! Plus this is a huge race so the slower you are the further back you start. This time we started in Corral C and that was perfect because everyone started at a running pace, but there was plenty of room and time to jog as needed.
  2. Don’t burn all your energy on the hills: If you haven’t run here before, the hills might be daunting and there’s no shame in jogging or speed walking! You’d be surprised at how much time you make up on the downhill parts.
  3. Set up the night before!: This is a must for most races because they’re usually pretty early, but this one you can actually sleep until the last minute because you pretty much just show up and race!
  4. Make a plan for transportation to and from Seattle Center: In the past I’ve taken an uber or a lyft and that’s worked pretty well! You can also hang out in the armory and charge your phone or grab some coffee or food. There’s also decent street parking around Queen Anne (free on Sunday) and parking lots ($10-20). The one thing to remember is that if you do the 5k they block the road after your race for the 15k so you’re trapped! It’s easy to get around, but it could add about 20 extra minutes especially if you need to get into the city.
  5. After the race take an Epsom Salt Bath: This is one of my guilty pleasures and it is the best thing to warm up after a cold morning and soothe your muscles so they don’t ache. I usually buy Dr. Teal’s Pre/Post Workout, but I love the foaming bath too!

VaLENTine’s Day!

This year we had a unique Valentine’s Day because it fell on the same day as Ash Wednesday for the first time since 1945!

On one hand, it took a lot of the pressure off. We didn’t have to plan a fancy dinner or anything extravagant. On the other hand, I was hangry. Usually on Ash Wednesday I go to work and put on a happy face and politely decline invitations to lunch and coffee. Then when I go home, I have a bowl of soup and crochet or do something alone.

It is WAY different when you’re fasting with a significant other. First off, I can’t thank Daniel enough for coming with me to mass (even when I was not a happy camper), taking me on a scenic flight and braving the grocery store at the end of the day when we were starving. Secondly, we’re buying soup ahead of time for Good Friday, duh!

The most notable thing from the day was that no one at work knew I was Catholic! The mass we went to before work at St. James was packed and there were several lunchtime masses in the area so it was surprising that I was the only person at work with ashes.

A few people asked me if I was comfortable talking about being Catholic and telling them what the ashes meant. Of course, I’m totally open about my faith and I would love to help others find their path if they are exploring religion.

When I told Daniel, he had a ton of great advice for how to respond to questions and how to share without being overwhelming. He also reminded me that we don’t live in a place where the majority of people are catholic or even religious. In the past we’ve managed to find communities of like minded people through school or our parish and I guess I didn’t realize how much I missed those connections.

This Lent, we’ll be trying out Alpha and I’m really hoping to meet some other couples that are like-minded in our ‘Engaged Encounter’ next month.

Engagement Party

We are so beyond lucky to have such sweet family and friends!

We had our Engagement Party in February and just about everyone made it! One of my best friends came up from Arizona and my cousin came from San Diego and my Aunt from Orange County!

We had the best time and it was such a great reminder of how supported we’ll be throughout our marriage.

It was also the kick in the pants we needed to get more ready for the wedding! It took a lot to coordinate a couple hour long event, so I can only imagine the hurdles that we’ll have to jump for our actual wedding.

2018 Word of the Year

Last year, my word was “acceptance” which was fitting in a year of so many changes. Fortuntately, most of the change was postive. I started a new job, bought a new car, got engaged! There were also very difficult things to accept. We lost my grandmother suddenly after a very long battle with lung cancer, both my parents had surgeries and we’ve faced situations and challenges that I could have never anticipated.

This year, we’re getting married! Plus we have trips and graduations and a honeymoon to plan! I know ultimately it will be a memorable year, but it’s a little overwhelming.

With that in mind, I used Jennifer Fulwiler’s Word of the Year Generator  and guess what: my 2018 word is “ready”. I even tried it a couple more times to see what else I got, but “ready” it is.

It’s hard to even imagine being ready for everything that the future holds for us and for our family, but I think maybe that’s the point. I don’t think I necessarily need to be ready for the entire future – but I think I can take baby steps to be ready for some of the things I know are coming up no matter what.

There are some other major pieces that I need to work on to be more “ready” this year. One of them is communication. We often procrastinate talking about key details of important things and then we have to scramble to get places on time or buy a gift etc. That also segues nicely into another issue of building healthy habits. Each week, I imagine, this is going to be the week I finally meal prep, or set out my clothes or keep the house from becoming a complete disaster.

My coworker told me about this book.

So my goal is to start with some baby steps. I’d like to be more prepared for each day, each week and so on. Hopefully, by the time summer rolls around I’ll feel more ready for the wedding!

2017 Highlights: 

Right before we got engaged!
Aladdin
Northwest Catholic Conference
The Puyallup Fair
Pullman, WA
Thunder Creek hike
Tom Petty Concert
Our first date! (Sort of)
Jenny and Diego’s Wedding
Sunburn on Las Islas Marietas
Trip to London before I started my new job!
My birthday in Las Vegas
January Long Weekend in Cape Cod